what do you think about women in late 30's & 40's says never married
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# 1 3/10/13 10:12 PM
When I look thru all profiles from age 36-55 alot say never married any comments especially from females
# 2 3/11/13 8:55 PM
some people honestly like to take there time to find that right person. or there is a chance some of them could be lying. you would have to talk with them to find out which side they are on
# 3 3/11/13 9:06 PM
Well I have a good friend here at work 37, never married. I dont see anything wrong with someone not being married and hitting middle age. Of course there are might be something with committment issues so you do have to ask.
# 4 3/31/13 10:23 PM
I am 40 and not been married but that does not mean that a person was not in a committed relationship. The views on marriage are changing and it not a requirement anymore to live with somebody in a committed relationship. I was in one for 18 years. It was just not that important to us and we had reasons the first 10 years or so to remain legally not married. But I am a little hesitant when I see somebody in late 30s early 40s that says never due to commitment type reasons but since I know I am the same I give the benefit of the doubt. Some have also commited a lot of time and effort to school and jobs and may not have taken the time of effort yet to meet the right person until they were more stable. Katrina
# 5 4/15/13 6:30 AM
We all have our reasons for this or that, but I would guess that perhaps the lady either had unrealistic expectations or decided to make the right choice rather than to settle for something less than acceptable.
# 6 8/15/13 8:20 PM
I still have friends who are in their late 30's and still not married. They dated a few guys but didn't work out. I used to date someone in his mid 40's and said that he doesn't want to get married. A few years later, he said he'd like to get married someday if he found the right person. If I meet a guy in his 40's and still single. I am sure there are reasons why he is still single. Sometime, it's his choice or hasn't met the right person or he doesn't have the look or doesn't have a career or some wrong with his personality or he has few a bad habit(s) or having a hard time finding a lady...who know...
# 7 8/26/13 7:37 AM
I am 39 was in a relationship for 8 years and when we first met he told me that he would never get married again. I have never been married it isn't because I have commitment issues or a fear of intimacy. I just chose the wrong guy.
# 8 10/27/13 9:52 PM
Well, I can tell about myself. I have studied my whole life, and finally my steady job came a few years ago. It was a matter of priorities, and now, more mature, I think I can live with a person under the same roof. It does seem simple, but actually it is not; and also, the right guy did not show. Well, let me rephrase that, the person with whom I could possibly love hasn´t shown up yet. I just keep the faith.
# 9 1/18/14 11:27 PM
I'm 43 and never been married. For me I would rather find the right guy, even if it take's awhile, rather than marry the wrong guy. I know a lot of women have been married and they have kid's by my age not to mention divorced and single parents. It's just a matter of what someone want's from life.
# 10 2/25/14 4:37 AM
Its their choice, not wanting a commitment, or looking for a knight in shining armour, I would like to meet one.
# 11
2/25/14 7:01 AM
My tuppenceworth.
I would have some concern, but that doesn't imply there is something wrong, just kinda different.
# 12
3/11/14 4:50 AM
Nina wrote:
Well, I can tell about myself. I have studied my whole life, and finally my steady job came a few years ago. It was a matter of priorities, and now, more mature, I think I can live with a person under the same roof. It does seem simple, but actually it is not; and also, the right guy did not show. Well, let me rephrase that, the person with whom I could possibly love hasn´t shown up yet. I just keep the faith.
Best of luck .
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